Now that my mother’s surgery is successfully over and I am home again, it is time to settle back into reality and into my routine—a process which I began late last week.
Getting back to reality can be quite difficult when you have been away from work for a whole week, whether you went on vacation or were caring for a family member. I have employed a few strategies to help myself adjust.
First, I remembered to set my “vacation responder” on my email program before I began my off time. (I put that phrase in quotation marks because that is what the email program calls it, even though a user might not be going to the beach or the mountains.) This takes the pressure off of me by telling people that they need to wait to hear from me. By the way, I never disclose my upcoming whereabouts when I write my outgoing message. I simply say that I am unavailable from date X to date Y and will be available again on date Z.
Second, when I got back to the grind, I went into my online bank account and took notice of any money that had come in. Then I recorded this in my ledger. My clients had all paid on time, which was excellent.
Third, I paid outstanding bills. By “outstanding” I do not mean overdue. I mean bills that hadn’t been paid yet. It feels good to know that this has been taken care of. When you are a freelancer, you are both accounts receivable and accounts payable.
Fourth, I tidied up my desk. I’d had a small pile of miscellaneous papers in one far corner, and it was time to attack. I went to work filing and organizing and throwing out. Now my desk is neat again.
Fifth, I wrote this blog post.
How about you? What do you do to transition into reality when you have been away from work?
