Based on what I’ve seen on LinkedIn lately, a lot of people are looking for work—whether they have been laid off, fired, or have just graduated from college or graduate school.
I have to say that I know how they feel, having been in a few periods of job-hunting myself. And I can honestly say that job-hunting drains you.
You search the job boards or company “careers” sites intensely for hours, clicking on a job title that sounds promising, only to read the qualifications and find out that this job is here (holding hand above head) and you are here (holding hand at chest level). Or you find a great-looking one and realize that it is three hours from your home, and you wonder how desperate you are. Your heart can only sink so many times before you break down and cry.
You tailor your resume to the job for which you are applying, and this requires some brain power. You try to make each item under each past job sound not only professional but spectacular. You want to make sure your resume stands out, but you know in your heart that this position is going to garner hundreds, if not thousands, of resumes, and you wonder if a human being will ever see yours.
If you are like me, you write your cover letters yourself, rather than using AI to write them. This can be very tiring, as you must tailor each letter to the position for which you are applying. You jot down in a notebook what attributes in the qualifications you have, and in the letter, you try to highlight each one with professional-sounding, fancy language. You try to accentuate your accomplishments without making the letter too long. And let’s face it—writing the sentence “I look forward to hearing from you” really gets old after a while.
If you are blessed enough to get an interview, you spend a ton of time preparing for it, and after it’s over, you write the thank-you email and wait. Then you follow up a week later. Then you hear nothing. Or you eventually get that love letter in your email inbox informing you that “we have decided to pursue other candidates.”
This is my own experience, although I have successfully landed jobs before.
What’s the most draining thing for you about job-hunting?
